Dear Moms: You Matter More Than You Know
Hey Boo, Let’s have a little real talk, heart to heart moment! When was the last time someone gave you a standing round of applause for folding the fifth load of laundry, negotiating snack time, or running a full-scale home operation before 9 AM? Oh, that’s right...probably never. Am I right? But here’s the thing, just because the world doesn’t throw you a parade every time you survive another day of motherhood doesn’t mean you don’t deserve one. I mean do some people even know what it's like to survive a day of motherhood? For example my son would probably try and hang me from the ceiling by my toes if he had a chance lol. So YES we/YOU deserve the red carpet treatment.
You, my friend, are the glue, the magic, the chaos coordinator, and the ultimate multitasker. But somewhere between keeping humans alive, keeping your house somewhat functional, and maybe running a business on the side, you’ve probably forgotten one very important thing.....YOU matter too.
Your Happiness Isn’t Optional, It’s Necessary
Repeat after me: "My happiness is not a luxury; it’s a priority." Because here’s the deal, when moms are thriving, the whole house runs better. (Can I get an AMEN!) The problem? Society has convinced us that "good moms" should be selfless to the point of exhaustion. But I call BS on that. You can love your family and take care of yourself at the same time. Now I know this is easier said than done.
That means:
✅ Buying the cute headband, even if the kids don’t "need" anything at the moment.
✅ Drinking your coffee while it’s still hot, because microwaving it three times should be illegal. FOR REAL!!
✅ Pursuing your passions, whether that’s running a business, taking a workout class, or binge-watching reality TV in peace.
✅ Saying ‘no’ to things that drain you and ‘yes’ to things that set your soul on fire. Give yourself more FIRE!!! More passion, more energy, turn that music up mama and dance until you can't stop laughing at yourself!
Celebrate Yourself Like You Celebrate Everyone Else
Moms are the first ones to cheer on their kids, spouses, support their friends, and celebrate everyone else’s wins. But when was the last time you clapped for yourself? No, seriously. When was the last time you stood in front of the mirror and said, "Damn, I’m doing a great job!"? I know for sure the only thing I have clapped at recently is the dishes. Yes mama the dishes. Thats because my business coach told us to clap at things that drag our mood down and say "NO MORE"! So yes I am just as guilty.
So here’s your permission slip: Take the break. Wear the cute outfit. Order the overpriced latte. Buy the largest glass of wine. Start the business. Book the spa day. Do what makes you feel alive. Because the best gift you can give your family is a version of you who is happy, fulfilled, and thriving.
Now, go out there and be the powerhouse of a woman that you are. And if no one has told you today you are doing an amazing job and you are beautiful. 💖
Until next time, Love ya!